How to be more fun to be around
Whether you came to the realization that you are annoying and boring on your own, or your friends staged an intervention to tell you off, here are 8 things that you can do to curb the problem.
#1 Be polite. It is hard to find fault with someone who has manners and is considerate to those around them. When you show others a sense of politesse and camaraderie, there is less of a chance that they will think of you as someone annoying or dull.
Remember that there is a very fine line between being an extrovert and an irritating person, and you would do very well for yourself if you knew the difference between the two.
#2 Stop being a know-it-all. some are very annoying with the habit of being a know-it-all. they does not even realize they are doing it, but it permeates every aspect of their life and every form of conversation they are involved in. some people are so annoying with the things they say,
The thing is, their information is not always accurate. Not just that, they seems to know everything about everyone, which is annoying, because it proves that the term “discretion” obviously flies right over their head.
Those close to them have come to terms with this very annoying part of them., but people who meet them for the first time are usually very taken aback by their annoying behaviour. if you see yourself as this type, u better sit yourself down and change.
#3 Let others speak. A surefire way to be called the most annoying person in the room is to hog the floor. You have to give others the chance to speak, no matter the time or place. Fun social situations do not develop out of one-man shows, so let others chime in and do not dominate the conversation.
As smart, talented, knowledgeable and hyper as you are, no one wants to hear you go on and on about your awesomeness, unless of course, you are Stephen Hawking or someone of his calibre.
#4 Make conversation with others. Say, for example, you are at a single’s mixer or your company sent you on a business conference abroad. Just because you do not know a soul does not mean you cannot engage strangers in intelligent conversation. It is even worse if you know the people around you, but do not make an effort to speak to them.

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