Challenges in Marriage

(1.) A cry for help!!!

My name is ******* I am 25 and has been married for 2yrs, I have a handsome son but I am in an unhappy marriage, I didn’t have the chance to date my husband as it was an arrangee marriage, we started talking through my uncle that is in the same country with him, we talked on phone for few months and he proposed, I fell in love with his voice and accepted his proposal, we exchanged pictures and it was sweet, he send his people to come for introduction, they came and met with my people and everything was fine, he promise to come back and pay for my bride price but he didn’t make it that time but he said his people can come and do that and every other things, so that once he comes back our wedding will take place, I accepted innocently, he finally came back and everything was so fast, he was so loving and sweet. They wedding took place within a short time, after the wedding, I found out that I was pregnant, he travelled again and came back before I gave birth, after then things started unveiling, he started changing, I started finding out a lot of things that he lied about himself, all the things he said were all lies, he goes out and comes home very late,  he has girls calling him even in the middle of the night, he does not care about a thing, he smokes and do all manner of things, so selfish and care less about others, I am so heartbroken and don’t know where to run to or who to tell, I cry all day and don’t want to let my people know because the warned me seriously about what I was going into. He is just the opposite of all he told me about himself, what am I going to do, I feel like running away but where will I run to, I am too young to be going through all this, who can help me? Is there anyone going through this kind of thing? Please someone should talk to me. I forgot to say that he stopped me from working, saying that he wants me to be at home and take care of his children and home, he has no love for me, he deceived me, he just want to have children, please someone help me, I am going crazy, family and friends will come and I will pretend that everything is going on fine, I cannot continue like this plssss!!!!